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milesdeep13905 62M

12/6/2017 5:02 pm

Looking for hook ups only. But you never know what one could lead too. Maybe she could be the one .


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
12/6/2017 5:21 pm

I want the 'taboo' thing! Yeah, I know what kind of site this is. But even on a regular dating site there are countless people there looking for sex only so why not look for a relationship here? As you said, this site is what you make of it. That's always been my opinion but glad to see someone shares it!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
12/6/2017 5:37 pm

I'm open minded. Recently widowed, so at this point in time I'm not really looking for a relationship, unless the right person comes along.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/6/2017 6:39 pm

Papis, Papis, Papis . . . Before I answer I need to correct something that many people seem to have trouble understanding – the meaning of the word relationship. It’s a word that, when it is used in its assumed/common usage, makes communication with the opposite sex (male or female) prone to misunderstanding.

re•la•tion•ship – [ri-ley-shuh n-ship] – noun
“the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. a connection, association, or involvement.”

In other words you and I are already in a relationship. That relationship could be further defined as a blogging relationship. It is similar to the relationship you and Lala have and the relationship Lala and I have.

To your question . . . I would fall into the “open-minded” category. That is another term that has had the crap beaten out of it but I won’t go there. Another way of putting it is “playing it by ear”. When I go into a meeting with a woman I don’t have a predetermined outcome in mind as there are a variety of outcomes that can (and have) occur. As long as she and I communicate and agree on what we do, or don’t do, no one has reason to get their knickers in a wad. A predetermined outcome can leave out a number of other possibilities including a long term romantic/sexual relationship.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
12/6/2017 8:53 pm

I definitely would like to find someone to not only to hook up with be to be able to connect with her and if things work out right, to ultimately have a relationship with that woman. But...that's if we can connect together.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/7/2017 7:04 am

    Quoting  :

In 2018 I am voting for Lala as our . . . our . . . uhmmm . . . what position are you running for?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
12/7/2017 2:28 pm

Even in this day and age, one has got to try and be open-minded about such things.


suzieloves3 38F

12/7/2017 5:48 pm

Let’s not be judgmental about this. We’ve all had one night stands. You’ve had one night stands. I’ve had one night stands. Who cares, really? As long as we’re safe, it’s fun and it’s probably the most exercise I get in a week. You enjoy each other’s bodies but not each other.


mad864012001 73M  
97 posts
12/8/2017 3:56 am

I prefer more than a one night stand I would like some one that can enjoy each others bodies and each other, a relationship of sorts I guesse someone to do things with other than just sex of course lots of sex is nice as well, Someone that respect's there selves and others Id rather get to know them some what first before just hoping in bed with them right !!! I'M not sure if this would be wanting a relationship or just a fwb thing ?


mad864012001 73M  
97 posts
12/8/2017 4:19 am

I definitely would like to find someone to not only to hook up with but to be able to connect with her and if things work out right make it something consistent why not if you get along ever well right !!!!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/8/2017 5:31 pm

It's not just about boinking.A steady gal is always a more desirable
choice.Someone you can build trust with.All these pseudo anagram relationships are no more than just doing someone until someone betyer
comes along.At least they give the anti monogamous crusade the feeling they've accomplished something.

Using more than all the road!


Knobbler_Wobbler 56M  
16 posts
12/9/2017 10:46 am

Labels and pigeon holes should not be too inclusive.......spread the joy.


johnm2475 47M

12/11/2017 11:42 am

yes i am a married man and NO I just do not wanna hook up 1 time, I would like to find a fwb for an ongoing long term thing


single_Rick_36 43M

12/11/2017 7:42 pm

i am looking for a friend and open to anything that will happen between us


1025mws 60M  
677 posts
12/12/2017 6:41 am

I would like to find a woman for more then just sex!! I am not looking for an one night stand. I want to find a woman that I like and want to be with more then just once. I do like have several women and I love having that special woman that I make love to.


1025mws 60M  
677 posts
12/12/2017 6:45 am

papis, I like what I see of you. I do not mind a big woman, I like a woman that has something to hold on to and to love. I would want to pleasure you and full fill your wants and desires in and out of the bed and bedroom.


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
12/14/2017 4:46 pm

When I was unattached, my profile pretty clearly said what I was looking for, something along these lines:

- Dates with long-term relationship potential (best)
- Dates with friend-with-benefits potential (good)
- One-time hook-up (OK, but if it's good, why should it be one time only?)

- Sex positive blogging (cool, but incidental to the goal of relationship potential)
- Friends without benefits (also cool but incidental)

Now that I'm married, more like this:

- Sex positive blogging
- Friends

I answered based on when I was unattached, since "not expecting to find sex here" wasn't an option.

- - -

By the way, when I was unattached, I went on a date with a woman I met through the "casual encounters" section of a well-known classified ad web site. During the date, she said that she was divorced mostly because her ex-husband was useless in bed, and that she was really looking for relationship-potential guys, but "casual encounters" was the best way to find out whether guys shared her ex-husband's critical fault, and even if they didn't turn out to be relationship-potential guys for other reasons, "casual encounters" guys were at least more likely to be good for an evening of fun. I didn't find her attractive in terms of personality or physically, so when we had finished our first round of drinks I said, "I'm not feeling it," and she replied that she wasn't either. But her approach to looking for a relationship-potential guy was interesting, though it was pretty much the only interesting thing she had to say.


ArkSoutherngent5 69M  
910 posts
12/14/2017 6:47 pm

I prefer to get to know something about the Lady


nuckinhunny 46M
153 posts
12/21/2017 6:58 am

mmmmm yummmmmmmmy love it


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