Polite, well groomed man who is lonely in bed. Give wonderful massages. Visit my profile & let's chat. Maybe we're not gonna click, but you will like the conversation. I tend to like people - and have found that things works out just fine most of the time. I'm 5'10", 187 and working to lose about 10 lbs I'm a little shy which surprises folks because I seem to have a strong personality. I enjoy being on the Internet. (My work is in front of a computer,) Fan of Indy Car open wheel racing, (but not NASCAR.) I do volunteer work for HLSR (Rodeo) and for a women's shelter. Guess I'm a bit of a techno-geek - computers, Internet, phones - but also speak english! Oh, and I can be a bit of a smart-alec. Just a bit, though, and I'm not mean about it. Yes, I'm one of millions who have an iPhone. No, I don't look at it every time I receive an email. I'm white, well groomed, healthy, told I'm good looking (not through my doing - thanks mom & dad.) I believe in opening doors, pulling out chairs, helping with coats, saying "Please" and "Thank You" (and NOT saying "No Problem" instead of "You're Welcome"!) It's called "good manners" and they are important to me. I am a gentleman and give flowers, remember birthdays, do the little things to show my appreciation and affection. If you want someone to mistreat you, belittle you, or make you feel bad, you've got the wrong guy. I'm a really good friend & listener and a very positive person. With or without sex, you will feel better around me. Love Chinese food and sushi as often as possible, plus BBQ and Tex-Mex and Greek food. Enjoy movies - out and at home. Like a wide variety of music. (Heard Jimi Hendrix as background music recently. Really - Jimi Hendrix is now mainstream? I'm officially old.) Fleetwood Mac, Michael Buble, Norah Jones, Diana Krall, Joe Pass, Rod Stewart, Linda Ronstadt, Neil Diamond. Much more Eastern medicine than Western "modern" medicine. They have been doing it for thousands of years and are healthier than we are. More likely to go to the acupuncturist or chiropractor than the MD.

My Ideal Person Woman 45-70 or older who likes to be romanced and treated like a wonderful, sexy lady. Someone who is looking for a part time friend. I have ALWAYS had a thing for women these ages. Glad I'm old enough now for them to pay attention to me.

I'm careful about my appearance and would expect that from you.

I quit smoking. It's probably OK if you do, but I prefer not to spend time in a smoke-filled environment.

Don't drink but it's OK if you do. But no drunks please - I tended bar long time ago and saw enough of those.

No drugs. Period.

Ideal person would like themselves and enjoy their life but would like to spend some time with someone like me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not specific fantasies, but, sorry, I'd leave you
in a minute for Amy Adams, Julianne Moore or Susan Sarandon.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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