Just because I'm black doesn't mean thats what I prefer...I listen to a large array of music, and I love to dance the night away. Going on a date and having an intimate relationship are two different things. If you're actively seeking relationship don't bother sending me a message, because I'm not. I'll go on a date, but I won't "date" you. I do not want to be responsible for hurting your feelings if you're really digging who I am as a per. I like having friends who have the same interests as me...that's not asking to much. I'm pretty independent, and honestly don't need any type of support. I'm somewhat old fashioned with a splash of independence. I don't think I've ever made the first move, but I don't mind paying the bill. I love to have a good time but don't have to be drunk to let my hair down. I'm also an artist, naturally athletic, a mother of two, and I have the ability to be the most loving per you'll ever meet. I'm not real needy. I'm very open minded and have an eclectic perality. At the end of the day, if you can make me laugh and have a nice smile...I'm sold!