In my 50s, safe, sane, and have more freedom than I know what to do with. I am looking for little things, someone who can live in the moment - not think its the end of the world if wine spills on my rug ( its only a rug ). I am nice guy, who likes to talk, listen, be bad......and am without dependents for the first time in forever. A good/bad thing. Want to have fun ......adult fun. I do enjoy reading, indie films, dining, and Hedo 2. I like to smile and make others smile. I am independent, an extro-introvert. Was in the life style for almost 20 years. Never as a single.

My Ideal Person Slim, attractive young/youthful, honest and smart. Sense if play and humour. No drama. I like smart and do not feel threatened by those smarter than myself.
Partying is fun....my ideal person has a good heart to go with eye candy appeal. The latter can be bought in one way of another. I really have no tolerance for those who use people, forgetting that the world is not a party of one.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Depeshe Mode, Greenday, New order....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, what turns her on/innocence gradually ( play time ) corrupted., Two girls. Forced orgasm.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, kind, kinky, attractive. great legs and thigh highs..LOL.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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