I'm a 44yo mwm, 5'11", 200lbs., muscular build, black hair,deep brown eyes (I've been told I have beautiful eyes by women both young and mature alike, a few tattoos (and a sleeve, but I do clean up well...lol),very handsome (or so I've been told) self employed,simply looking to explore all that life has to offer. Please, don't get me wrong, I am by no means desperate for sex, maybe for some affection but definately not for sex. I just don't want to someday look back on my life and WISH I had tried or done or explored EVERY opportunity that can my way. I'm looking for someone who can help me explore my fantasies while fulfilling theirs. I've had a few bisexual experiences, and currently I'm seeking a woman that would enjoy exploring her hidden, dominate side, in a safe, consensual, 100% mutually enjoyed, and completely open, honest, totally sexual relationship. I want the ultimate, the perfect sexual relationship. The kind where you can try, or do, or say,... ANYTHING!......without having to "feel" ...anything....or anyway.......nothing..and I mean ABSOLUTELY NOTHING is, or would possibly even thoughht of as "kinky"....I'd like to share some of those feelings that I've experienced. Hoping to find a woman or couple who I can feel comfortable with and not feel embarassed when discussing each others sexuality, or what we desire, want or need. Hopefully Mick Jagger was right when he said.. " you can't always get what you want, but if you try, sometimes, you get what you need " I use the same name on the Y messenger, feel free to add me as a friend. I'm usually weekdays, when the desires are strogest and everyone is busy. Sexuality and eroticism truly start all in the mind, you don't have to have the body of a super model by any means..simply the desire to feel, say and do what you've always fantasized about, whatever that may be. As I mentioned, I have experimented bisexually and enjoyed it, maybe more so because it was 2 people exploring hidden tabboos without guilty feelings...merely for total, mutual satisfaction. I know many bisexual woman that have described being with another woman the same way for them. (they also were the most incredible lovers, to me). What I don't like are judgemental people that feel they are Gods gift to the world...that they alone know what is right or wrong and who feel it is necessary to critisize others for their lifestyle or their body (I'm pretty hot...lol) or hidden desires. We are all here to get what we need in one way or another, whether that be sex or just some affection from someone. Geez, I'm really starting to go on and on...I should really start a blog of my own...LOL...Anyway, if you're interested...or even just want to chat and make a new (discreet) friend, drop me an email...I respond to all.

My Ideal Person Someone that enjoys foreplay as much as I do. I love pleasing a woman in any way she desires, from full body worship, a nice foot massage, licking her toes too sucking her earlobes. Oral sex drives me wild, both giving (mmmm) and receiving. I've been lucky enough to experience true foreplay for hours at a time, meaning for over 2 hours...leading to sex in a variety of erotic positions, then going back down between her legs and bringing her over the edge with my mouth and tongue for another couple of hours (yes, thta means I have no issues with cleaning up after myself, so to speak, and yes, that really is 4 hours). I simply love the taste of a woman. Your pleasure is all I desire..
But don't get me wrong here, I also enjoy letting a woman take charge from time to time...having her be in complete control, letting her use me as she wants, doing whatever she says..Open up and let me in, I promise I won't disappoint you...I want to explore EVERY inch of your body with my tongue...I want to see you moan with pleasure beyond anything you've ever experienced. I'm willing to be whatever you want me to be.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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