I'm always told I'm an attractive man, and I love to experience life and think it's far too short to waste it being indecisive and held back. I think tattoos on women are super hot and I admire a woman who is not afraid to be herself and honestly express her wants and desires. I'm a spiritual person and always explore that in my life constantly. I'm a fit person and work out regularly but I'm definitely not obsessed, and I believe in respect. But even though I'm deep and looking for a real connection, I'm also very spontaneous and adventurous and have a bad boy streak. That means I can be sensual and loving one minute, then grab your hair, kiss you hard, pin you up against a wall and talk dirty to you the next. I'm passionate about honesty, openness and truth, and being around other people who are willing to be themselves completely and unabashedly, without pretense or apology. My old marriage was a non-monogamous open marriage. We tried a few different things, but mainly only participated in MFF as that was what we preferred, as it allowed for a deeper connection with the people we played with. I'm definitely not afraid to express my emotions and never run away from feminine intensity. In the end, I'm looking for a best friend, and to dedicate myself completely to just one person yet always allow ourselves the freedom to be who we are and honour that through our personal growth and change. I'm definitely not into online and cyber chatting. Call me old school, but I'm into real life and real connections - so if you feel the need to chat forever on here before deciding to meet in person, then you're probably not for me. ;) What am I looking for? I'm fit and in relatively good shape, so I'm looking for the same in return. But that said, it takes way more than just looks to catch my attention. I'm not looking for an act, I'm looking for authentically real and 100% honest. That's not just about the things you do, it's about who you are. You must love to live life to the fullest and be fearlessly driven by your heart and always willing to open to your authentic self. So if that's you, and if you're a woman who feels powerful in her femininity then we'll get along famously - and you also have to know how to kiss... That's unbelievably important! If you want to know more about me and what I'm into, then check out my Q&As above. [B]Definitely not into one night stands[/B] or sex with just "anyone I can get". I have no problems getting it and I'm definitely not desperate, but I'm at the point in my life where I'm looking for something specific - so I'm pretty choosy about who I get involved with. I'm ultimately looking for an ongoing relationship, as like a fine wine, things only get better with time. Chemistry is also huge for me, so I'm always up for a no-pressure meet to see if that's there before any fun happens. My profile says I'm open to couples, but as a fair warning, it very rarely happens unless the chemistry is there between all parties. Ultimately, I'm looking for a partner to share adventures with, and when I am actually active I get tested a few times a year. I'm open and respectful, so feel free to drop me a message and let's see what happens.

My Ideal Person Note: Absolutely NO married women looking to fool around on the side. Been there, done that, and it only ends in pain for both parties. I may be open to it if hubby knows all, but that's as far as I'll go.

Though I'm open to straight, I'm ultimately looking for a bisexual partner who is willing to travel thru life with me and share fun and experiences. Though I'm open to sexual encounters with the right people, I'm ultimately looking for a partner in crime... Someone to have a passionate, connected and real relationship with - with additional sexual fun and excitement whenever we both feel like it.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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