Update** Currently Separated and not very monitored by him, and not monitored at all by her** Who we are... We are in Mrs Grundy's world, and are trying to keep her at bay. Living in a fishbowl is a challenge when you don't want to tip it over. WE are looking for someone to take the time (weeks?) to actually seduce my wife. Drop us a line with your ideas, and we will see what happens. Remember, We know that most on here are just looking for a quicky, and this will not be one, so if that's all you want, go ahead and pass. We are looking for a long term situation, that will end up with friends with good benefits. :-) We have done a lot, and enjoyed every minute of it. We want to do more, but finding the right people is the most important part. Remember, If you are going to wink, if your profile settings are set as private, it will only show that someone flirted, not who it is... If you like to write about encounters you have had or would like to have, share and we will do the same.. He has a couple of stories pending publishing Location update: He is likely to be traveling all over the world and is always looking for a playmate. He is the primary user of the account, and will sometimes look for single fun as well. WARNING: Any institution using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

My Ideal Person What She is looking for is someone she is comfortable around, Someone she can be herself around without worrying about that they might think about her. No comfort, no play. We have to be comfortable with our playmates, as the kids are likely to meet them too, and we want to keep it all comfortable all the time. He bases his reactions on her when playing with couples.

What he Loves most about a woman is her ability to laugh, Have intelligent conversations, go after what she wants, and not fear consequences!

We are looking for couples to hang out with, be grown ups with, and even be "ADULTS" with. Singles are welcome as well. Single guys, we can find guys anywhere, Be different or don't bother. Rude but True, Sorry.

Invitations to networks are considered rude and deleted immediately unless there is SOME sort of interaction BOTH WAYS first. (this is a subtle hint to people not to message us AND invite to their network. The one is OK, the other is not.)

One last thing, that you are not going to find in a dropdown. We have some hobbies that many would consider unusual. We play role playing games like Dungeons and Dragons, we enjoy going to, and participating in, Medieval Festivals/Fairs. We are comfortable with that, and ask that you be as well.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Indigo Girls, Clumsey Lovers, Arrogent Worms, Various

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, little bit of bnd

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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