***If I accept your friend request, it does not mean I want to jump in bed with you*** I love chatting with people and learning new things. I am open minded, easy to talk to and love sharing pics, but that doesn't mean I'm going to have sex with you. Yes, I am a submissive, but no I'm not looking to jump into bed with someone who just wants to pull my hair, spank me and treat me like a dog. I derive my pleasure from pleasing and serving whoever I am with. I am most willing and eager to have my limits and boundaries pushed with someone that I can trust. Building trust takes time. I love spankings, nipple torture, being restrained and blindfolded, anal play, oral play, light humiliation and much more. I haven't tried everything and am open to most everything, but pedo play, animals and scat are absolute no's for me. I am looking for someone that I can explore these possibilities with but, up to this point pretty much everyone that I have talked to doesn't really seem to know what they're doing or it's just a game to them. It's not a game to me. It's who I am. I need to find someone that is serious, knows what he is doing and can take complete control of my mind and body with the intention of empowering me to be a strong per. I am more than willing to do what you tell me and how to do it if you are the right one. For me, it is more for the mental side than the physical. I am not going to meet up and hop into bed with you the first time we meet. I really value the bond that can develop in a BDSM relationship. I feel that a in a good/strong BDSM relationship, the Dom/Master has the best interests of his sub at heart, will protect them to the best of their ability and not abuse the power they are given. I want to know that I am special to the man that I serve so that I can feel safe and comfortable in letting go. I want to be able to trust that he only wants the best for me, to help me grow as a per and not just be some meaningless playtoy to beat on. I won't be treated like a piece of garbage that doesn't matter because my willingness to be fully submissive is a gift to be valued. Having a Dom willing to accept the responsibility and control of his submissive without abusing the power is a gift as well. I am not looking for someone to just play around with. I get nothing from partaking in physical interactions with someone I don't care about. I am looking for a man to be able to submit to and put my focus on being theirs. I like to know that it is my place to serve him, keep him happy, do as I am told and not be disrespectful. In return, I am rewarded with his attentions or punished as he sees fit.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Linkin Park, Iggy Azalea, Seether, 3 Days Grace, T.I.,
Little Big Town, Tim McGraw

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really, I fantasize more about what is going on than
who I am with.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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